A friend post a question about the difference between sex and making love.
Its quite a common question that many feel inadequately answered. Isn't it the same? Merely a difference in wording nothing more.
Yet to those of us who have tasted the fruit knows it isn't.
Simply put ...
Sex is fucking of the body.
Making love is fucking of the soul.
Sex can be explained with words like ecstasy and climax.
A masterbation is sex with ourselves. Sex with another person without love is still sex with ourselves.
Making love though is different.
Its an exchange of soul between partners.
You don't just climax.
You pass a piece of yourself over to the party when it is done right.
A true act of love is our willingness to open ourselves up to another, a solemn trust that they will guard and protect that which we have shared with them.
Which is what makes loving making so sensual and pure. It's not physical but a liberation of the heart.
Based upon trust, love and understanding, a successful Love making session frees us of our self doubt and negativity.
Its something that is simple but hard to achieve. Mainly because we are so guarded today. Trust is a hard commodity to find.
Take this posting as it is.
My words are a mere shadow of the whole.
Hopefully enough to help point at the right direction for those who seek it.
:: Posted via my spiffy Galaxy S2 ::