I have been told by a certain individual that I am the
"New Breed" of what is categorized as "Good
Husbandry" of our current timeline.
Why was such a statement uttered, you asked?
Simply because I was doing chores at home while my wife unit
was gallivanting around town with her girlfriends having a good time.
Personally I don't see the issue, but it seems that it was
something of a weird occurrence equivalent to "UFO Sightings". Both
of which are not possible yet clobbered with such overwhelming undeniable evidence that it cannot be ignored by the mere brush of hands.
I would say that I am doing something that my wife would do
for me if I ever so wanted to go running around with my friends shopping. It
just so happens that I have no such need, thus she does not need to invest in such
activity for me. I do however have a tendency to spend a lot of time working in front
of my computer and she graciously allows me to do so without giving me too much
grief over the matter.
So there, it is a fair exchange of time and money.
I make the cash.
She spends them.
To be fair, she spends her money and mine so she is not bias
in that area.
And I am all good for it.
I am not a spender.
I enjoy working, the money is a secondary outcome of
the event, so it is not a problem when my wife helps me utilize it for our
benefits.
I know the post sounds like I am speaking in a reveres
reference manner.
But the truth is, I really don't mind it.
When one is in a relationship, we do things that allows our
partners to achieve the highest possible score in happiness experience gauge. It is our duty and pleasure to see them laugh
and smile. Why should it be a problem at all?
I can guess of course on why most people are not happy with
that particular formula.
What might that be?
It is simple.
People are rather selfish when happiness is in play.
They want to be the one happiest.
Actually some might even go to the extend to be the ONLY ONE
happy.
And that my friends is where I am at a cross roads with
them.
Oh, I agree that we must do the things that we are happy of.
Why would anyone do anything that makes them unhappy.
It is just insane to not be so or that your brain is saddled with too much of
prescriptive drugs.
I do the things I do because it makes me happy.
I just have a different definition on how to achieve the said happiness.
I get a kick whenever I see my love ones smile.
A giggle in the morning will make my entire day seem bright.
A good laugh from the belly gives me a tingle on every
possible synapse in my body.
A sincere "I love you" will basically sign my life
over to whomever that utters it.
I thrive on the happiness that I draped over the people
around me.
But wait.
Doesn't that mean that I am basing my entire life on what
other people think?
Doesn't that give them power over me?
The answer?
No. It only seems to be so but it is not.
I am still my own master.
My soul is still mine.
The things that I am looking for in life is true happiness
which I can bring from my actions.
If I am unable to make another smile, it merely means that I
have more to do in order to achieve it.
Am I unhappy?
Nope. On the contrary, I am in essence more excited because
there is a challenge at hand.
To be able to bring that smile to light is a goal in my
life.
That is the part which I keep telling my wife and explaining
to her why I love her so.
Because making her smile is more than just her exercising
some facial muscles.
It is the corner stone to something bigger.
It creates the sense of fulfillment that washes away everything
that is the ickiness that tries to tarnish the sensibility of the living.
Another day, another smile.
Another tick in the box until the end days.
What better life can one ask for.
